2024 Wedding Don’ts: Trends Past Their Prime

When it comes to your wedding — anything goes. It’s yours after all. Therefore, there are some definitive trends and statements that you might want to think about. We asked the experts what was on the way out when it comes to wedding planning right now, and they answered. Here’s the rundown of what can be left out in the wedding planning game (for now). 

Large Bridal Parties

Brides and grooms alike are starting to see the downside of having our bridal parties, says Melanie Levin, wonder and principal planner of LuckEleven Events. She notes that having just one maid of honor or just having the siblings in the wedding party is one way that couples are avoiding too many “cooks in the kitchen,” or having to choose friends over other friends, and making everything just a bit less stressful for all involved. 

Single-Day Events

We’re back to destination weddings and welcome parties! According to Zola, there’s been a 32% jump in welcome parties the day before the main event for Zola couples in 2024, and planners have seen this in real time.

“Couples believe that if their guests are spending time and money to attend their wedding, it should be more than just dinner and dancing. A single day wedding is now often accompanied by a welcome party or next day brunch,” says Levin. 

Long Ceremonies

According to Zola, 92% of couples are over long ceremonies. “While maintaining the specialness of the moment, couples also want to keep their guests entertained and eager to move on to the celebration, aiming to reach Happy Hour before the champagne loses its fizz,” says Allison Cullman, wedding and registry expert at Zola.

Wedding Favors

Wedding favors are now unnecessary to 62% of couples, according to Zola.

“Rather than giving out small keepsakes that just add expense, couples are enhancing the event experience with late-night snacks and signature cocktails,” says Cullen. “After hours of dancing, guests would much rather enjoy a tasty snack or a refreshing drink than receive another trinket.”

Bouquet and Garter Tosses

Bouquet and garter tosses are becoming less popular among some couples. These customs can be viewed as a bit outdated, gendered, and uncomfortable, says Cullen. “Instead, couples prefer to spend more time on the dance floor, enjoying the celebration without the awkwardness these traditions can sometimes create.”

Traditional Elements

Speaking of, many traditional elements are leaving altogether.

“More and more of my clients are ditching the wedding traditions and making their own decisions,” says Levin. “For example, couples are choosing which side of the altar they stand based on their good side, where their families are sitting, wardrobe, and weather.”

Cullen agrees: “From the pressure to look a certain way, to the expectation that one person is going to do all of the planning work — modern couples are saying ‘I don’t’ to the societal expectations and pressures that take away from what really matters: getting married.”